When we participated in a training with Pride Center VT, they shared this fun graphic that helps us to look at different ways sex and gender can manifest.  As you look at the diagram, you will notice that there are multiple combinations of sex, gender, and attraction.  There is not only one way or even two or three, but many ways that we can express ourselves as humans.  Try filling it out and see what arise for you.  We would love to hear about it.